Tomorrow my husband and I are flying to Hong Kong. I have client work to do there, and he was able to take the time off (since he's now his own boss) to join me. We were talking this morning about what a pain it's going to be, having to be stuck on an airplane for 16 hours. But at least, we noted, we're traveling in business class, and so will be able to get some sleep.
Published on: Tuesday, October 28, 2014
Then I started thinking about my dad's dad's parents, two young immigrants from Denmark, Nils Andersen and Mina Jenson, who met working on a farm in upstate New York. They married, saved their money, bought a wagon, and traveled to Nebraska to start a new life on a farm of their own — taking advantage of the Homestead Act that offered free land to anyone who filed a claim and lived there for five years. It took them — and this is the point of the story — just over two months to make the journey.
So, only 125 years ago, my great-grandparents spent two months jolting along in an open wagon in the broiling sun, fending off hunger, thirst, wild animals and god knows what else, in order to get to their destination just 1,200 miles away. And I'm bitching about being pampered in a luxurious, entertainment-equipped, fully-climate-controlled environment for 16 hours while I travel 8,000 miles.
There are so many aspects of this journey about which I should be absolutely amazed, vs. whiny and jaded. It's actually amazing to me that airplanes even work, just to begin with, let alone what's evolved out of that unbelievable reality over the past century.
I noticed that as soon as I shifted my focus from "I hate long flights" to "It's amazing that this is possible" — my entire emotional state about the trip started to change. Now I'm feeling kind of excited, not only about being in Hong Kong (the first time for me) — but also about the flight itself. It's like being in a high-end hotel for 16 hours, moving at unimaginable speeds… that's pretty fascinating. I suspect I'll now experience that 16 hours differently than I would have otherwise; that I may enjoy it a good deal more, and that I may find other useful or interesting understanding or ideas arise from the experience.
So much of what surrounds us these days is simply astonishing, and is unlike anything that's ever existed in human history. It's easy to forget that, to get ho-hum and complacent. But I find that when I step back and allow myself to be astonished, good things happen. It opens up my brain and my heart, and I can see situations, events and possibilities in new ways.
Note to self: stay amazed.
Erika Andersen is the founding partner of Proteus, a coaching, consulting and training firm that focuses on leader readiness. Over the past 30 years, Erika has developed a reputation for creating approaches to learning and business-building that are custom tailored to her clients’ challenges, goals, and culture. She and her colleagues at Proteus focus uniquely on supporting leaders at all levels to get ready and stay ready to meet whatever the future might bring. Much of her recent work has focused on organizational visioning and strategy, executive coaching, and management and leadership development.
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